Mengikut John Gray, best selling writer of relationships, kita akan terus tahu orang itu cantek melalui jiwa a.k.a. souls. It is like an automatic feeling and 'SNAP!' kita akan kelaskan orang itu cantik. That's why cantik for a person, maybe not the same for cantik of the person's friends. "Eh apa la kau pilih awek takde 'class' langsung." , tak betul rasanya ckap camtu since we have different definition of beautiful.
Beautiful can also be split into two, physical and emotional. Physical tu mcam biasa la kan. Kita tgok appearance of that person. Cara dia done her hair, pakai tudung, make up, her fashion trend or even her smile. :) ada orang suka mata sepet, ada orang suka mata tebal. Macam masa sekolah rendah dulu, kita tgok kwan kita, hhmmm nothing special. . . But after 7 years, pergghhh da start tahu dress up, pakai perfume, bedak and more.
For emotion pulak lain sket, it will develop not at young age and also at a short introduction. We need maturity to know the person is beautiful 'inside'. Tak macam physical beauty, emotional beauty is strongly related to personalities. And sebab tu lah we need more time to see the internal beauty, bukan pada pertemuan pertama je. Pendiam, kelakar, hyper and more. Tu la karakter yang boleh 'menggoda' a person that he will say "GOD!, she is my type afterall'.
Ultimately, your soul will just know if they found their mate and I'm pretty sure that it is a beautiful soul. Tapi bukanlah nak menghalang orang kahwin muda. Cuma LOVE is just something big that it needs some time for confirmation. Kekadang kita bila kita interested in someone masa budak, terus fikir dia jodoh kita. It is actually an excited feeling a gender to explore the opposite, not true love. Just give it some time okay? And beautiful is such a subjective word, don't listen to others. I am a science man, but things like this sometimes u just gotta leave it to the heart and the Man above. Salambye.
weh, at the end bagi tau ah sapa yg tulis. hehe nice btw :)
ReplyDeleteHAHA! It's Dahan's post. But right now it's Miraz who's replying. lol. aku ni kan assistant dia. Dia mana check sangat the notifications. LOL. xDD
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Tapi kan . Tapi kan. Jodoh lain orang lain-lain masa. Sometimes 30 tahun baru bertemu jodoh. Kadang-kadang 19 tahun dah found the one. And sometimes, sampai ke sudah tak jumpa jodoh. Betul tak?
ReplyDeleteBut you're right. Sometimes, someone yang you sayang sgt2 yg you give everything you could to, is not for you. And you should have waited and got to know the person inside and out before jumping in. Before giving everything. Kan?
Yeap. Exactly. Sorry for the late reply though. But just to make it clear, I believe that jodoh is something that is worth searching. And yup you're right coz sometimes after 30 years, baru jumpa pasangan hidup. So really, give time to yourself and from then on you can identify how compatible you are with that someone.
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