Saturday, 31 May 2014

Is the Euphoria Over?

I read somewhere that says a state of euphoria is achieved at the early stage of a relationship. This however can deteriorate with time depending on the how the pair work its relationship out. Along the way, no doubt that a relationship is like a rocky boat set out to sail the open seas. I, myself am experiencing through this stage -It's a stage of which you don't know whether to keep on sailing or call out for land ahoy!

It's hard to say. . . There are a few factors which could make the spark all worn out.
Based on the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", the author highlights that these two genders are completely different. You can bet that each man would want to know what's happening inside a woman's heart and each woman would want to know what's happening inside a man's brain. So there ya go, the clash of the titans! *BOOMZ~*

Personally right now, I do not know how men think and it still is a mystery for most of us women. 
But to all men, please know that:
  • A woman is a "woman" of her words. When she promises something, she usually keeps it. 
  • A woman bends accordingly to how her man shapes. You have no idea how true this is.. Sadly it is.
  • A woman puts honesty at its highest peak. Trust is not something to be bargained.
  • A woman supports without complaining. It is her nature to bear support. 
Despite all of the above, a woman can also at one point stop doing all these when they find that they are not receiving the love that they deserve. This is a weird thing to think of, I mean you could say like "Hey, who asked you to give so much? I didn't even ask you to do this and/or that. You got no one but yourself to blame since you put high expectations on people", but what men do not realize all this while is that these women are the ones who motivates them at critical times. 

For all the men out there, show respect and an act of love for the woman you love. It doesn't have to be a fancy schmancy romantic French dinner overlooking the city of Paris, it can just be a postcard or a video made specially for the person the care about. Sometimes, if a woman is cranky or moody or upset, it can be that it's coz they feel that you're no longer pursuing them. You gotta admit, they don't ask it directly to your face and you'll be like "Why didn't you tell me in the first place??", but hey, you need to be able to figure out these kinda things eventually in life. 

It's a huge difference when a man begins to express his feelings to her. She'll feel more appreciated and that it's no longer only her doing the job, trying to maintain the relationship. Being "professional" in a relationship (means like no PDA a.k.a public displays of affection, etc) is good, but things will get dull if you don't step up to the matter. A relationship is meant to be personal no? Hence, have balance between the two.

Ouh, and another one more thing, women get tired too and they have their ego too. So be careful coz at one point they can just stop doing what they did back then. Believe it or not, it's actually easy to impress the women. You simply have to remember the little things she did for you. It's not always about the compliments and gifts, but sometimes only remembrance; like how likely it is for you to include her as a part of your life. Trust me, I'm a woman. I know this like the back of my hand. Man up and pursue her like you used to.   

So tell me now, is the euphoria really over? ;)

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