My Summer Trip

Yo wassup homie! HAHA. While most of my friends in the UK are already back to Malaysia, I decided, smart enough to go back slightly late (well 30 days late LOL) which is in the middle of July. Saja gedik nak rasa puasa kat sini haha. (18 hours fyi) #mampoo? So to fill my time, I just got back actually from my summer trip part 1 haha lol which were Nice, Monaco, Monte Carlo and Milan. Thanks to my friend Aliff Fuad who never gave up to pujuk me to go with him haha.

So this post is not to brag about where I went and such, just wanna share some of the things, good or bad that I observed during my stay there. So enough bunga bunga ni let's just get straight to the story shall we?

NICE

Nice = Malaysia That's for the intro haha. The nightlife, the weather, the market everything haha. Unlike here in the UK, the bars and restaurants won't closed until there is even one customer inside. The reason I knew was because my hostel was literally above an Irish bar. I don't think it's exaggerating for me to say that it's a food paradise there, especially the Old Town. But the food is quite expensive I must say. You're looking at 7- 10 euros per meal. The beach, well it's not that exciting to chill there I must say. It's rocky beach fyi, so yeah might wanna watch your step dude haha. But the water is clear tho. The city itself is very nice to walk around.

MONTE CARLO

If you ain't got no money then I don't wanna talk haha. Like seriously, the only reason of the cheap salon cars are available are because of the tourists renting the cars. Minus that, Ferrari, Aston Martin, Porsche and other you-know-what-i-mean brands you will only see. If you wanna test just how rich you are, just spend an hour there HAHA. There were not many things to do there, for me, I went to see the collection of cars of Prince of Monaco, his castle and also the world famous bend for the F1. And please don't go to the Japanese Garden, it's like really nothing there. And if you have the money just take the train. The bus is cheap but man the queues are like hell. Compared to Nice and Cannes, I must say the water is the clearest here. Overall, you should go to Monte Carlo. Just... be there.

CANNES

Yeah Mr Bean right?! I know haha. The only problem I had was only the journey was too long for me (almost 2 hours). The sandy beach there was perfect for swimming and man the ice cream there is very good! (me loikee mango) Too bad we don't the time to go to the place where they held the film festival though. But hanging in the beach of Cannes kot, what more can i ask? HAHA

MILAN

Quite excited to go here actually cause I take some Italians back in the Uni, so tak sabar to put it to the test haha. First the guest house that I was staying, it was perfect. The wi-fi, the location and the room itself were very nice! Plus the transport system here is very efficient but is not very strict as well. You can simply take a tram and not paying an euro at all. Tapi kitorang tak buat la haha LOL. When speaking of Milan, the first thing came to all our minds is the Cathedral aka Duomo. Il Duomo is very nice I could not agree more. The statue, details of the building are to good to be true, but the people around there really worried me. There were some Africans I think, attacked us at the exit of the metro station near the Duomo. By attack I don't mean rob jgan rsau haha. They forced us to buy their some kind of stupid and ugly bracelet and keep following us until we were about to enter the Duomo. Luckily nothing happened to us but still, this leaves bad reputation for people who are about to visit Milan. Same thing at the Milan Centrale. Foreigners like literally sleeping outside the station, peeing and even pooping there. I find this is very rude for a person to do this let alone a foreigner. The government should do something about this I must say. Moving on, about the food, memang tak payah risau. The price is alright and for muslims, halal foods are everywhere.

To conclude, I am proud to say this trip went well haha. Loving every single moment of it. And I learnt a lot as well, from the places, the people, the museums and even the transport system lol haha. Finally I would to say, just travel! Don't worry about money, because you can always work for money, but not for memories. TATA! :D

7 minutes summary of my trip HEHE!

Is the Euphoria Over?

I read somewhere that says a state of euphoria is achieved at the early stage of a relationship. This however can deteriorate with time depending on the how the pair work its relationship out. Along the way, no doubt that a relationship is like a rocky boat set out to sail the open seas. I, myself am experiencing through this stage -It's a stage of which you don't know whether to keep on sailing or call out for land ahoy!

It's hard to say. . . There are a few factors which could make the spark all worn out.

Based on the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", the author highlights that these two genders are completely different. You can bet that each man would want to know what's happening inside a woman's heart and each woman would want to know what's happening inside a man's brain. So there ya go, the clash of the titans! *BOOMZ~*

Personally right now, I do not know how men think and it still is a mystery for most of us women. 

But to all men, please know that:

• A woman is a "woman" of her words. When she promises something, she usually keeps it. 
• A woman bends accordingly to how her man shapes. You have no idea how true this is.. Sadly it is.
• A woman puts honesty at its highest peak. Trust is not something to be bargained.
• A woman supports without complaining. It is her nature to bear support. 

Despite all of the above, a woman can also at one point stop doing all these when they find that they are not receiving the love that they deserve. This is a weird thing to think of, I mean you could say like "Hey, who asked you to give so much? I didn't even ask you to do this and/or that. You got no one but yourself to blame since you put high expectations on people", but what men do not realize all this while is that these women are the ones who motivates them at critical times. 

For all the men out there, show respect and an act of love for the woman you love. It doesn't have to be a fancy schmancy romantic French dinner overlooking the city of Paris, it can just be a postcard or a video made specially for the person the care about. Sometimes, if a woman is cranky or moody or upset, it can be that it's coz they feel that you're no longer pursuing them. You gotta admit, they don't ask it directly to your face and you'll be like "Why didn't you tell me in the first place??", but hey, you need to be able to figure out these kinda things eventually in life. 

It's a huge difference when a man begins to express his feelings to her. She'll feel more appreciated and that it's no longer only her doing the job, trying to maintain the relationship. Being "professional" in a relationship (means like no PDA a.k.a public displays of affection, etc) is good, but things will get dull if you don't step up to the matter. A relationship is meant to be personal no? Hence, have balance between the two.

Ouh, and another one more thing, women get tired too and they have their ego too. So be careful coz at one point they can just stop doing what they did back then. Believe it or not, it's actually easy to impress the women. You simply have to remember the little things she did for you. It's not always about the compliments and gifts, but sometimes only remembrance; like how likely it is for you to include her as a part of your life. Trust me, I'm a woman. I know this like the back of my hand. Man up and pursue her like you used to.   

So tell me now, is the euphoria really over? ;)

Sheffield VS Kuala Kubu Bharu

Damn it's been a while since I've posted stuff here. Sorry bout that. Bukan busy sangat pong, just pure MALAS!! Thanks to her, I suddenly feel the rush in my vein to post as well. #giggity

As you can tell from the previous post, Alhamdulillah, I'm now at Sheffield Uni, studio fisica e prima anni. (show off amek Italian, we'll get back to that nanti). I am now in the middle of my final now before going to Monte Carlo, Milan, Rome, Malaysia and after that back to Sheffield to continue my 2nd year pulak dengan izin Tuhan. #masyallahvrade And thank god, I managed to go to Spain during the winter and it was so much fun and adventurous I would say ahha. I also met her during our visit to Cordoba. (it was not planned okay?) HAHA #orisitttt

It's almost 9 months now, and I love every seconds of my time here. Dunno about people who study in different parts in England, but man, Sheffield is so AWESOMEE!! Being the greenest city in the UK, 4th biggest and even recently, managed to get No. 1 in student satisfaction. #kawhado? You know what? Let me tell you what are the top 5 things I love about Sheffield or even England.

1. (Budaya 'tahan pintu') Here, when you about enter a room or a space with a door, it is WAJIB, bukan harus, WAJIB for you to tahan pintu to allow the person behind to enter the room. Basically it's like what doorman in Hilton's will do just that kita takde la kena tahan pintu sampai 100 orang masuk HAHA. Once, I was like 15 metres away from the door, but SHE okay, SHE still 'tahan pintu' for me. What a nice person I have to say. Yeah I know this 'tahan pintu' is simple thing, but it really shows of how polite the society is. And if it was so simple, kenapa kita tak buat? #akuponmakandalam
2. (Strategic) I live in Broomhall, Havelock St to be exact where it is only 5 mins walk to my class (yup I often woke up 20 mins before class HAHA) and no worry, there are a lot of Malaysians here, not counting of those living outside Broomhall lagi. Here, what we do is walk, walk and walk. Nak beli ayam, going for classes, shopping, Solat Jumaat you name it! Plus it's cold here, so you don't sweat much and get sunburn jgan risau. 
3. (The Peeps) Hey ya? You alright? Hey love? These 3 are some of the common greetings you would hear once you enter a bakery, retail store, anything. Even when you enter a taxi, the driver would address you as sir. SIR kot haha. terhormat gitu! They always put a smile on their faces (guess Joker taught them that) I played frisbee fyi, representing Malaysian Soc to play in numerous Malaysian Games throughout UK and I have to say, frisbee is quite famous here. What I would like to highlight is that it is not awkward at all for me to join some strangers who were tossing at the park. In fact, I managed to make a good out of it, named Ben. Went to hiking with him last Easter. Also, I am not referring to the white British only. Sometimes, I joined my Indian buds and played cricket with them. Given that I sucked (sebab dah karat), they still happy to accept me HAHA. My housemates, sometimes play 'Sepak Takraw' with the Somalians here. See what I mean? By people, I meant not just the British. but all of the community in Sheffield. Even my beloved housemates. Sekor sekor masuk air HAHA. 
4. (Cost of Living) Yeah I know pound sterling is a very expensive currency and moms might think "Macam mana la anak aku hidup kat UK tu? Cukup makan ke dok?". Well to tell you the truth, it is more than enough. Unlike London, (tak suka London haha), Sheffield is a rather cheaper city. My house is pretty big and it only cost GBP 298 per month, you can get into fine dining with only GBP 5. My last travel to Spain only cost me about GBP 400, including flights, hotels, cars, souvenirs, everything! #tiborhspain There's sale in the city like every freaking time as well. (wonder how the hell they made profits tho) So, Ibu jangan la risau. Along kat sini makan semua cukup AHAAHAH.
5. (FOOD) Being a foodie, memang nice la aku ditakdirkan belajar kat Sheffield. Makan sini memang kalau nak cerita tu, memang boleh buat sinetron! And I'm talking about halal food alone. Given that a lot of people from Arabs and Pakistan migrate here, kebab, beriyani tu sure memang tak boleh miss! There's one street in Sheffield called Wicker Street and my god, it's like a food paradise! Kiri kanan makanan halal! But not to forget, English people loves teas and so do I. They have a lot fusion of teas, some are honey and apple teas, blueberry tea and even red chili tea (serious sh*t). Even for the bakery, frankly speaking their TESCO donuts and cookies are much better than some bakeries in Malaysia and 1000000x better than TESCO Malaysia. Yet, it's cheap man! My personal favorite is 5 pieces of vanilla custard donuts from Sainsbury's, which cost only 75p.  

But nothing's perfect right? So is Sheffield, and it's normal. Here are some of the things that I think Malaysia is better.

1. (MAKANNNN) Thinking of writing this at no 3, but my tummy could not wait no more HAHA. Although food is Sheffield is good, I think Malaysian food is better. Especially seafood cause it's freaking expensive here, given Sheffield is far from the sea. Nasi Campur, Cendol, and even KFC Cheesy Wedges pon I dah rindu! And not to brag la kan, living in Sheffield has somehow made me a better cook HAHA. Korma, Curry, 'Masak Lemak' are some the things that I managed to learn to cook. Can't wait to show off to my family HAHA.
2. (Sopan Santun) Eventhough I said that people in Sheffield is friendly and all, we Malaysians still have that kind of 'sopan santun'. Here, we called lecturers only by their names. Example my Physics teacher, Prof. Matt Mear, I just called Matt (yeah he's a Professor for God sake, I know) I found it hard to say it, but over time, it's alright seems everybody been doing it. Given that Sheffield is one of the best social life in Sheffield, party memang tak payah cakap ah. Never walk alone on a Friday Nights here. Drunk people are everywhere and you might not know what they're gonna do. Hell I reckon they also dunno what they're doing HAHA! 
3. (Geography) Sheffield, for you information is a very very hilly city. Very hard to found flat surfaces here I tell you. I once cycled from my house to Peak District and I remember this very steep road I had to cycled. Not to exaggerate here but I'm pretty sure that the angle of inclination was around 40 degrees!! Hell no I'm gonna buy myself a bike here. I rather walk HAHA.  
4. (Weather) It's now spring here, well at least that's what they said. Last month it was very sunny and hot and I was like yeah! But for 2 weeks now, it's nothing but rain, sometimes last for the whole evening. Don't get me started on winter ahah. The wind that time so strong that my Math class had to be cancelled due worries that the building might shake so strong that it will collapse. It's quite shock at first to adapt the single digit during last winter.   But what's sad is that there was no snow at all, well, there's one but it only lasts for couple of hours. I mean like, "Alang - alang dah gagah kena single digit tu, baik bagi snow terus kan?' HHA. Tapi takpe. Ada hikmah di sebalik all of this. #hanyatuhanyangtahu
5. (Pressure by UKBA) UK Border Agency is the agency that you need to go to before flying off to UK. Your visa, TB Cert, etc. had to go through them. And before this, the allowance for international students was set minimum GBP 600++ but then after a couple of years, it was raised to GBP 880. And now there are rumors that UKBA wanted to increase it again to GBP 1000. I mean like it's good right? I got more money from my sponsors, can shop a lot, travel Europe etc. As tempting as that may sound, I have to say that I'm not really agree with this. First, it is still our parents money given that I am a government scholar. Yeah increase by only GBP 120 is not that much, but try to times it with the number Malaysian students in the UK? Plus the massive debts of MAS, a  Government Linked Companies (GLC)? Second, it is one of the method of UKBA to reduce the number of immigrants in the UK. I learnt in my Sociology class. By 2020, UK decides to reduce the number of immigrant entries from hundred thousands to ten thousands per year. You know what? Now I get how Bangladesh-ians felt when we, Malaysians hated them for coming to Malaysia. But financial reports in the UK showed that actually the immigrants in the UK are actually contributing much more in the economies in both working and education sector than the locals, no offense.  So why would you do that? Maybe it's because money's not everything. I dunno man, just a kid trying to figure out life still. HAHA.

So yeah, tu je kot. Wow could not believe I'm finally blogging again, thanks to her. HAHA. Okay you folks take care alright? Love you all bye! :D Wish me luck for exams! Hujan emas di negeri orang, hujan batu di negeri sendiri, lebih baik di negeri sendiri haha. Assalamualaikum...

"What on Earth?!" says the alien

Greetings fellow Earthlings and Martians and Venusians (whether the last two exist or not) out there!

So a dear friend of mine, Mia has given me this vid link and I was planning to reply her in the comments, but it ended up turning into a blog entry. LOL! But yeah, thanks Mia for the vid~ :D And here's the feedback since I feel like doing a midnight film review all of a sudden (is there such a thing???)

Fact #10: 
A common general idea used in typical movies i.e Prometheus (Golly you should watch the How It Should Have Ended version on Youtube! It's damn funneyyhh! x'D (provided that you've watched the original movie of course)

Fact #9: 
Would've been true. . . Coz it's highly possible that the first living cell might have fallen frm the outer space except that's not the case since darwin's theory of evolution is not entirely true whch is a bummer bcoz students can only sit there and listen to lectures that support his theory. Plus, you gotta admit the part where the vid says aliens target the planet to "experiment" with their bacteria is kinda preposterous. . . On what proof can we base that fact on?

Fact #8: 
Wow okay... Technology trade?? Now it says there this happened or perhaps "happened" in 1947. But I believe that the discovery of the vast developing technology is made by none other than the scientists themselves. Physicists to be precise. Now Bohr helped with the quantization of the particles alongside with Einstein around early 90's, roughly 1910's. To those of you who are not familiar with this, the discovery of quantized particle is a signification revolution in the Physics world. To alter the physical world which men have always believed to exist in a continuum, now that is hard I tell you (Well, but not so hard for Einstein and Bohr on the other hand. lol). But to cut things short, this led to what we know now as electronics. Now electrical stuff are fancy, but electronic gadgets, they double those. We can see quantum mechanics being utilized in our digital cameras, phones you name it! (Wow I surely blabbed a lot for this one). But back to my point, the world did not need to wait for the year 1947 to watch all this happen. It is MEANT to happen with all the research that was going on at back then.

Fact #7:
This is a new one for me. Never heard of this theory before. But I have to say, I love the part where they include the Canadian Arctic *GO CANADA!*. Wait wait, hold on for a second there. So if we relate #9 which believes that humans come from monkeys, and that there are lifeforms living in the Arctic. . .
           Arctic + Monkeys = ARCTIC MONKEYS !! *Crying Lightning plays in the background*
What's this Mira? World's Lame Jokes day?? -.-'' HAHA lol okay fine, so monkeys =/= apes. . . But so what? If the whole world is idiotic enough to believe that dressing like Lady Gaga is rad, no person would really care if I mess up the two right? Ahh. . . But there will be a difference wouldn't it? Clearly there is a fine line between ignorance and indifference. It depends on how meticulous one can be. Back to the topic, I'd rather just leave the readers for this one. It is nothing more than an assumption. One might prefer to be ignorant or simply indifferent to the theory.
p/s: Am not a big fan of Arctic Monkeys. Just happens that a friend of mine listens to their songs, causing me to know one or two.

Fact #6:
Talk about mere magical realism (Learnt this in CPU. Thank you ENG 4U for having Life of Pi as our novel! xD ). Well the only thing I know about the Moon; apart from it is made of cheese (again, magical realism) is the childhood cartoon figure Man in the Moon. Could he be one of the Aliens who manipulate humankind throughout the years?? Oh oh! Maybe he's the one who inspired Frank Sinatra to write the song "Fly Me to the Moon"! *sarcasm alert!* xD

Fact #5:
God this one really gave me a presque vu! Now where have I encountered the word Elohim again. . . >,<
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(Many minutes later)

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AHAH! 

AHMED DEEDAT

'Twas from Ahmed Deedat's debates and lectures that I heard him mention the word. It is from either the New Testament or the Old Testament. I can't really direct you readers to which vid specifically coz I lost count and it's too many to be traced back. However, I this is what I found when I searched it up;


"The letters Y H W H occur in the Hebrew (Jewish) Scriptures 6,823 times, boasts the Jehovah's Witness, and it occurs in combination with the word "Elohim;" 156 times in the booklet called Genesis alone. This combination YHWH/ELOHIM has been consistently translated in the English Bible as "Lord God," "Lord God," Lord God," ad infinitum."

Click here for more info on the origin of the word

This is of course based on a religious point of view (Islamic to be precise). But if you read further, it was said that the word became a taboo back in the 16th century. . . How peculiar. . .

Fact #4:
This is something that would never come across my mind. It is however creative though. Ha ha *A decent laugh given* =w=

Fact #3:
One word; no (no way I can make it that short. I'm the Essay Girl for crying out loud. I have to live up to that title. LOL xD ) one sentence: Queen Elizabeth II, George Bush and the Clintons' are cousin to Lord Voldemort *Hiiissssss~~ (snake sound) sambil joget22 to The Strokes' Reptilia* xDDDD

Fact #2:
If this is true, then I have no words left to say. *pull the trigger due to the ridiculous movie influence over today's society*

Fact #1:
Gosh. . . There are better explanations to that dude!! Like helloooooowhhh~~ Ever heard of the paranormal side of the world? Well, for those who at least believe in their books. I believe that some religions like Islam do acknowledge the mystical world of Djins. Yes and this will include the other creatures that can't be seen with the naked eye i.e Satans and Angels. The story of David and Goliath, some people (not me) say that that giant figure, Goliath might even be Djin. And as we all know, Djin can be really large in size and throughout history, it is known to either mislead men or let them be. Even in the world today, there are a few human cultures of the world that associate themselves with the Djins to ask for their 'help' (This of course is not permissible for the Muslims. It's considered an action of blasphemy).

Summary: 
"Aliens" is really an interesting topic to talk about. The so called extra terrestrial activities caught on camera are so hard to be verified due to the advanced tech of vid editing. In my opinion, if one wants to believe in the existence of aliens, they have to give solid proof to the world. I believe, even if there are Aliens out there, I do not think that they are better than human beings. This is because I strongly believe in this verse that emphasizes on how exquisite human beings are;

This is mainly the verse. You'll need to search for the tafsir for more explanation about this verse.

It is absurd on how sometimes how humans can go beyond what their minds can think of. But you know what, one of the reasons to these existing theories, well I dunno, might just be, I repeat MIGHT JUST BE because they in denial of God's existence. To them, it is far more tangible to create another character that is real enough to substitute God. To answer whether Aliens exist or not is similar to answering whether multiverses exist or not. Sadly, they put the status of God at the same level. :c So, do aliens exist? To be honest,  no one has the slightest clue (coz even some proofs can be fraudulently made up). But hey, sometimes ignorance is a bliss. Appreciate the things that are meant to be kept as a mystery. :]

an update for change.

It's been a while since the last post.. A lot of things had happened during the course of almost a year:

1. Mr Afiq Najmi Jamsari got into Sheffield University and flew off to the UK last September. (Yes, he passed his A-levels with flying seven ultimate rainbow colors of the unicorn~ yipyip22!)
2. I managed to get into my Geophysics major and flew off to Vancouver in September to continue my second year.
3. We attended Abas' wedding on the exact date of my flight back to Vancouver and Dahan had his open house right after.
4. I, for the first time ever contacted Kak Lin (a PHD senior of mine in UBC) to stay at her house while we waited for the day to move into our new house #casablanca woot22!. Mia went back to Okanagan but came to Vancouver multiple times because Vancouverites are awesome (LOL xD)
5. At the beginning of the 1st term, I was busy moving into the new house and Pak Cik Dahan was busy preparing for his departure that September. He later found himself staying in a house with 5 other housemates which soon quickly became his buds (I mean it, they even made a film about their home etc. Haha). So yeap, we then had our Fall or as the Brits say, Autumn term go smoothly. No winter break would be complete without snowboarding, so that's what I did after the finals. Weehoo~ :D
6. Winter break: I went to Spain to spend the holidays with my family there. Turns out Afiq and his friends also went to Spain and believe it or not, we bumped into each other in Mesquita, Cordova. Awkwarddd~ *that's what he said* Ahaha. Spent an ample amount of time with my sister in Cardiff (Guess what? Afiq was there too. Again lol) and went to London to meet some old friends back in college.
7. 2nd term started and Afiq was busy with a lot of activities already. He was so active with his band, frisbee, you name it! He was involved in the Sheffield Games, Battle of the Bands, NEXT, and these are only a few that I named here. For him to be this active in his first year, he has my salute. On my side, things were not as good. I was having breakouts due to the stressful life that I was having. Not that I don't enjoy the life I have here, it's just that I don't find that sheer joy and fun in class that I used to experience back in college. The lectures were getting duller day by day and they repelled not only me but many other students from attending. At one point, I just couldn't wait to finish my finals. Like I don't care about the grades anymore. But of course, interesting things happened along the way, alternating my daily school routine like midterms, midterms and midterms. :3 lol kidding (but really). Like I went to Kelowna with Rabiaal to pay Mia a visit during the spring break (Kelowna people are so friendly!), had sleepovers, organized the MSN event, got elected for MSA and SMC committee, and taught piano basics to lil kids.
8. Hmm. So for some of the outdoor stuff that we did.. That would be bungee jumping for Afiq and his gang, and windsurfing for me and ma gals. Haha.
9. May: My results are out and Alhamdulillah they weren't as bad as I thought >,O. That one week break before summer school started was filled with non-stop activities. We had many people coming to Vancouver -Alan from Toronto, Kak Rina and her bunch from Kelowna, Doje and the gang from Hamilton. It was fun although tiring. The things we did range from camping to shopping at the US outlet to crashing Auntie Saadiah's crib to watching LINDSEY STIRLING's concert! So currently I am in the midst of my summer school (man the classes are happening as fast as lightning) and as for the UK peeps, it's their turn to face the finals. Haha. Ganbatte neee~!!!
10. Boohoo is not needed for Dahan since he'll be going to Monte Carlo of Monaco (Na na na na na na na na na na na22~ I'm no beauty queen I'm just beautiful kingg~~ xDDD )  and Milan of Italy soon after he's done with his finals. As for me, Malaysia here I come!! :D

Errkk.. Wow okay that was a lot for a 10 point-form-sentences made. Anyway, the thing that came across my mind today is change... It's a broad topic. But as I traced back into the past few months, there's no doubt that things have changed -be it to me or to someone else. I, to be honest am not a huge fan of change. I've always loved to have things stay as they were before but c'mon, everyone is old enough to know that that is impossible.

What sucks about change is that it's easier for you to notice the change in people rather than in yourself (Am I right or am I right?). Change comes in lots of sizes and shapes. It could be the attitude, the physical appearance, and even the personality! It can also be the type that leans towards better or worse. So let's just hope it stays somewhere in between or towards better coz I bet everyone here is not up for a negative change. Here's a thing or two about change..

Firstly, what you'll realize is that change matters upon distance. Why? Because the further away you are from someone, the easier it is for you to notice a change in him or her, hence making the change seem to be a big deal. Try to however list down any changes in your housemates or someone you often see and compare. You'll see how hard it is to fill up the paper.

Secondly, you know what, sometimes even if you're friend is near you, changes can happen right in front of your eyes. This is usually depending on the situation or the environment that one is in.

Thirdly, forget about the point 1 and point 2 above coz changes are bound to happen regardless of the two theorems given anyways.

So how do we deal with these unwanted changes? 
1. The hardest part about change is to accept it. The only way for our brains to work well is to acknowledge. By doing this, one can proceed onto the next step to deal with changes.
2. Learn to understand why. Rationale comes in better when we fully put ourselves in that person's shoes.
3. Decide whether to associate or to renounce ourselves from it. This is a really huge step because sometimes though how hard we try to pretend things do not really change between us and that person, we can never really tell what choices we'll make at the end of the day. Sometimes, people have already renounced themselves from that someone while they're in the middle of laying out the reasons. They could just continue detaching themselves or they might just come back into the picture.

I don't plan to go on for too long coz I'm pretty sure a lot of people can relate to this and might already have their own ways to cope with change. My personal experience with change, really, was not pretty.. Up until I realize then that hey, I do too change whether I like it or not. From then on I stopped making a fuss out of it coz that's how things are. They are always evolving and are never meant to be stagnant. One thing's for sure, I'll look back at this post and say to myself "Oh my look how I've changed". Haha!

"Every day is a transformation

Every day is a new sensation

Alteration, modification

An incarnation, celebration

Every day is a new equation

Every day is a revelation

Information, anticipation 

Onto another destination"